Femme-centred social · London
pronounced satin
A love letter to femininity, thoughtful hosting, and the kind of evenings you wish lasted a little longer.
Thursday 1 October 2026 Peckham, London Venue shared with ticket holders
Tell a fem to tell a fem x
Welcome to satxn
You can call me Chen.
I’m a 33-year-old creative from South London.
For a while I’d been looking for a queer social space that felt like me. Somewhere I could dress up or down, beat or bare-faced, and still feel authentic to my energy. Somewhere to slow down, meet new people without the pressure to perform, and leave feeling fuller than when I arrived.
I wanted sweet cocktails under dim lights, with R&B and Neo-Soul in the background, beautiful spaces and genuine connection. Less “whine pon di c*cky” and more “don’t be a hard rock when you really are a gem, babygirl.” Gimmie all of that… but in a room full of femmes.
I couldn’t find it. So I created it.
satxn (satin) is a social for queer women and non-binary people who connect with femme or feminine expression. It’s anti-clique and solo-friendly, the intimate corner of a house party. Whether you’re lesbian, bisexual, pan, fluid, questioning, or label-less, you are welcome.
It simply reflects my interpretation of femininity and the atmosphere I was craving. I’m not here to define what femininity means to anyone else, or to suggest there’s only one way to express it.
If you see yourself in the world satxn is creating, stay a while…
Chen x
On the aux
Respect is just the minimum…
satxn has zero tolerance for racism, transphobia, homophobia, violence, harassment, discrimination or hateful speech or behaviour of any kind.
satxn is intentionally femme-centred. While everyone experiences and expresses femininity differently, the atmosphere of this space is rooted in celebrating it. I ask everyone who joins to honour and respect that.
Protecting the room means protecting the people in it.
FAQs
Is satxn a dating event?
Not quite. satxn is a social where romantic and platonic connections can happen naturally. Come with no expectations beyond having a lovely evening. Regardless, respect, boundaries and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable.
Can I come on my own?
Absolutely. satxn is intentionally solo-friendly. I’ll do my best to make sure you are well looked after.
Who is satxn for?
satxn is a femme-centred social for queer women and non-binary people. Whether you’re lesbian, bisexual, pan, fluid, questioning, or label-less, you are welcome.
Do I have to identify as femme?
satxn is a femme-centred space. If you feel at home in that, you’re welcome. I’m not here to define or police what femininity means to anyone. I simply ask that everyone who joins us respects the intention of the space.
What should I wear?
There isn’t a strict dress code, just dress in a way that feels true to you. If you’re unsure of the mood, the insta page is the best place to get a feel for the satxn aesthetic.
What can I expect?
Dim lights, smooth sounds, beautiful spaces, thoughtful conversation and a carefully curated atmosphere.
What if I’m questioning my sexuality?
You’re welcome here.
What if I feel uncomfortable?
Please speak to Chen or a member of the satxn/bar team. Protecting the room means protecting the people in it.
How old do I need to be?
25+ preferred, 21+ welcome.
What’s the ticket policy?
Change of plans? Full refunds are available until Thursday 10 September 2026, three weeks before the event. Just DM @satxnofficial.
After 10 September tickets are non-refundable, but you still have two options.
1. Resell your ticket through satxn. Please DM @satxnofficial as soon as possible and I’ll do my best to find another femme to take your place. If your ticket is successfully purchased by another guest, you’ll receive a full refund. Resale can’t be guaranteed.
2. Transfer your ticket to another femme. Please DM @satxnofficial before the event with the new guest’s full name, email address and Instagram handle (if they have one). Your ticket isn’t valid until the transfer has been confirmed.
If satxn cancels the event, all ticket holders will receive a full refund.
As a small independent business, every ticket purchased helps bring the satxn experience to life. Thank you for understanding.
Why invite-only? How can I be invited?
satxn is invite-only, but not because it’s difficult to get into. It simply means it grows through word of mouth. You might hear about satxn through a friend, be handed a satxn card irl, receive a DM from Chen, or slide in satxn’s DMs yourself! The evening is intentionally intimate, with no more than 80 tickets available. Not to create exclusivity, but to create ease. A smaller room means less overwhelm, more meaningful conversations, and the opportunity to genuinely connect with the people around you, whether you come solo or with femmes.